6 Reasons You Didn’t Get A Kiss At The End Of Your ‘Perfect’ Date3. You didn’t attempt to make the first move, so she decided she wasn’t going to, either.Yes, sometimes girls like to pull the “I may be an independent woman, but I’m not going to kiss you first because that is against the rules of ancient time” card. I don’t play by those rules, but that’s just me.If you did not make the attempt to kiss her first, she is going to assume you were not into the date. So, she will just forget that a kiss was supposed to happen.Don’t make her think you are not into her when you really are.